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On the other hand, the local dating scene is like shopping at Whole Foods. Going on dates there is like going to the grocery store. However, my passion is observing dating and relationships. Dating here becomes both heaven and hell for foreigner guys. The biggest problem with dating anywhere in the world is the lack of communication. I see all the ads on The that read “Seeking nice Chinese lady for marriage,” or “Want Chinese woman for lonely nights.” Everyone has their needs, but honestly, why limit your options to an ethnicity? Tell us about a few of your most popular articles you’ve written – what do you think was the reason behind their success? ""I see a lot of foreigners in Beijing being extremely rude to the fuwuyuan. What a strange string of comments about the treatment of fuwuyuan. If you went to a country where the locals beat their wives, would that make it OK for you to do as well?You get sucked in by the romanticized packaging, but at the end of the day, you have to fill one practical need: get fed. So while locals want to lead with their heart, having a car, an apartment and a good job might take precedence over emotional needs. You can always squeeze in a date between work and yoga. I don’t have a degree, I don’t have a certificate, and I don’t have fancy letters at the end of my name like R. I mentally collect stories and formulate patterns, trends and takeaways. It’s awesome because guys can get laid at every hutong corner, but the downside is local girls get attached more aggressively – not to mention the pervasiveness of STDs. People forget how to hold conversations, how to get to know a stranger, and how to be engaging. It shows disinterest, insecurity, and the possibility of a lazy eye (not cute). I see a lot of foreigners in Beijing being extremely rude to the fuwuyuan. 1) The Dating Timeline: Who You Should Be Dating at What Age 2) Heartbreak and the Emotional Cushion: How Men and Women Deal With Heartbreak Differently 3) Rejection, Lessons Learned From Chinese Dating Show Fei Cheng Wu Rao 4) What Do Men and Women Really Want 5) The Stages of Attraction 6) The Curse of the Buffet (What Happens With Too Many Options) 7) Why Some Women Lack Maternal Instinct All of these articles were popular because they dealt with the elephant in the room – the things that people are thinking but don’t want to say out loud. I agree with Yue Xu, I hate seeing foreigners poorly treat wait staff because they wouldn't dare to do so in their home countries. I like that she's observing the dating scene here and making comparisons to the states.This is most likely due to the fact that Chinese locals don’t do as much casual dating as we do in the US. For many expats moving to Shanghai or Beijing, dating can be a vexed question.Or in other words, you sometimes have to put down the organic quinoa and just buy a bag of white rice. The difference is that in China, a commitment is expected. Locals here don’t have to go through the awkward conversation of “defining their relationship” and using the word “exclusive.” If the basic requirements are met and they go on a few dates, a commitment is already established. Speed dating is a great way to practice your conversational skills and bring out the “interesting” in anyone. It’s just so classless and disrespectful, it would have me wondering how much of a dick they could be to me. Also, I think articles like "Heartbreak," "Stages of Attraction" and "Rejection" simplify the guesswork that we drive ourselves crazy over. I'd be curious to know how dating in Beijing is different than other countries..France, or Sweden.But in the US, even if you’ve already met the parents and attended the best friend’s wedding, you’re still not in a committed relationship until it is verbally awarded to you. Some people go into dating with a list of their “requirements.” People obviously make these lists based on their previous experiences. What’s the best/strangest place for dates around here? I also have some fool-proof pick-up strategies but I’ll leave the guys to find those for themselves. Our online editor Mark Angus shares with us his experiences of living in Shanghai and how having a Chinese girlfriend enriched his life and enhanced his understanding of Chinese culture When I first moved to Shanghai in 2007, It was never my intention to find myself a partner.

I know this would have been considerably more difficult without Lila by my side, handling the many frustrations that one encounters when trying to get about in China. Being with Lila meant that I ate food that I would never have had the courage to order on my own (even when my Mandarin got good enough to read menus for myself), and discovered some rare treats, as well as some dishes I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.

Things ultimately didn’t work out between us in the end, much to my regret, but the couple of years we were together were very special, and I am absolutely convinced that without Lila my years in China would not have been anywhere near as enjoyable or interesting, nor would I have come to have the understanding of the people and culture that I do.

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Lila (not her real name) lived in Beijing, however.

At first, I thought this might be something of a problem but quickly discovered that flights between Shanghai and the capital are frequent and cheap, and so this wasn’t going to be too much of an issue.

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